For the welcome party: Cocktail attire is welcome! Sport coats for men and cocktail dresses for women.

For the ceremony & reception: Please join us in formal attire. Think polished suits & ties for men and mid-to-floor-length dresses for women. Leave the tuxes and sequins at home; we’ll save those for another time!

Potentially! The Vineyard, and specifically Farm Neck, is full of lovely grassy expanses that you may want a photo or two on. While the main events are taking place on solid ground, we would recommend a block heel. And, there will be mandatory dancing (and lots of it), so maybe bring a backup pair or choose something stylish and survivable.

Somewhere between a coastal dream and a humid surprise. Expect 70s and sunny… but bring a layer in case New England decides to get moody. We’ve seen fog, heat waves, and perfect sunsets—all in the same weekend. Pack for all climates.

We’ve got hotel recs and Airbnb tips on the Accommodations page. Book early—June fills up fast on the island! We are not doing a formal hotel block, but we have variety of options listed on our website.

Yes! We’ll have shuttles to take you from the church to the reception and from the reception to the after party and Edgartown hotels.

We dont recommend it! There is little to no parking at the church which is in the center of town. Best to walk or uber to Church then hop on the bus and enjoy the ride! If you insist on driving, there is plenty of parking at our reception location, however you may struggle to park in Edgartown at our ceremony.

Yes! Uber and Lyft are available on island, as well as taxis. We recommend staying in and around Edgartown though to limit the need for car services.

We’ll have plenty of drinks at the welcome party, but we highly recommend grabbing a bite to eat at one of our favorite restaurants around 6pm.