For the welcome party: Cocktail! Sport coats for men and cocktail dresses for women. Think elevated, not overdressed. Bonus points for linen, bold prints, or anything you’d wear to sip a cocktail by the water at golden hour.

For the ceremony & reception: Formal! Think blue suits and long or midi-length dresses. But we’re on an island—feel free to play with florals, coastal colors, linen, and breezy glam.

Potentially! The Vineyard, and specifically Farm Neck, is full of lovely grassy expanses that you may want a photo or two on. While the main events are taking place on solid ground, we would recommend a block heel. And, there will be mandatory dancing (and lots of it), so maybe bring a backup pair or choose something stylish and survivable.

Somewhere between a coastal dream and a humid surprise. Expect 70s and sunny… but bring a layer in case New England decides to get moody. We’ve seen fog, heat waves, and perfect sunsets—all in the same weekend. Pack for all climates.

We’ve got hotel recs and Airbnb tips [on the Where to Stay page]. Book early—June fills up fast on the island!

Yes! We’ll have shuttles to take you from the church to the reception and from the reception to the after party.

TBD - but we don’t recommend it! Hop on the bus and enjoy the ride